Similar products to Fashion Soft:
Softee Base - QCM
Chino Base - Rutland
Ultra Soft Primer Clear - Rutland
I always forget the name of IC's product.
These are all very liquid products which I believe is giving you the results that you prefer.
If you go to a "Soft Hand" product, the print will still have more body, and therefore more "hand" in comparison. Nothing wrong with that, it just depends on what your expectations are.