"He who marches out of step hears another drum." ~ Ken Kesey
thanx everybody, we hope we are out of the woods now and the healing time starts. We lost our baby that was due in a couple of weeks. There were no complications before it happened and everything was so sudden. We still don't know and might never find out the cause. My wife is doing OK now (physically) and we should be leaving the hospital in few hours. We are looking forward to a couple of days to ourselves to gather our thoughts and try to put everything into perspective. pierre