Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work. - Thomas Edison
I am probably not alone in noticing the phenomena of how eager to help they are at six changing drastically when they are about thirteen!
Quote from: Frog on December 06, 2013, 02:05:13 PMI am probably not alone in noticing the phenomena of how eager to help they are at six changing drastically when they are about thirteen!I was reroofing my house and told my kid that he was to get up there with me to shovel shingles as a lesson in ambition towards eventual employment a step up or two from being on the business end of a shovel. After about 15 minutes of watching him "labor" with his eyes rolling back in his head as if he'd been tethered to an oar in a galley, I told him to get off the roof, pick up all the shingles that had missed the trailer down below, then go do something else. Forcing me to watch a teenager work to avoid work is cruel and unusual punishment.A few years later I sold a couple of palms to a nursery. The guy brought by a load of dirt to fill the holes and proffered a $20 toward my kid to do the job so he could leave with the tree. My kid balked. His mother took the twenty and told the boy to fill the holes -- for nothing -- as a reward for being lazy.Now all that said, once he started working for others at 18, he's been their best employee wherever he went, busting his ass, working Saturdays, whatever. But, man, those early teen years were brutal . . .